Edgar, there's a difference between missing him and wanting nothing to change, " she said. "They aren't the same things at all. And we can't do anything about either one. Things always change. Things would be changing right now if your father were alive, Edgar. That's just life. You can fight it or you accept it. The only difference is, if you accept it, you can get to do other things. If you fight it, you're stuck in the same spot forever. Does that make sense?" But aren't some changes worth fighting?" You know that's true." So how do you know which is which?" I don't know a way to tell for sure, " she said. "You ask, 'Why am I really fighting this?' If the answer is 'Because I'm scared of what things will be like, ' then, most times, you're fighting for the wrong reason." And if that's not the answer?" Then you dig in your heels and you fight and fight and fight. But you have to be absolutely sure you can handle a different kind of change, because in the end, things will change anyway, just not that way. In fact, if you get into a fight like that, it pretty much guarantees things are going to change. .David Wroblewski
About This Quote
When you are in a relationship, there are going to be ups and downs. Sometimes, you will fight with your partner and the arguing will cause a rift in the relationship. However, if you can accept that you cannot control what happens in life, then you will have a better chance of making it work with your partner. When a relationship is going through a rough patch, it is very easy to get caught up in the arguments and lose sight of what is important. The key to making it work is to focus on your partner and their happiness.
Source: The Story Of Edgar Sawtelle
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